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Being Mortal

BY Lisa Lindblad

June 26, 2015

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Atul Gawande, Being Mortal‘s author, is one of those rare and remarkable beings:  Practicing surgeon, writer for the New Yorker, author of  seminal books and, because of these accomplishments, a thought leader.

I was advised to read the book by my mother’s doctor.  This young doctor met my 92-year old mother recently. Before we parted, she mentioned the title and suggested that it might give me a new perspective on the journey we are engaged in,  a journey that she, as well, is on along with almost everyone I know.

It is a deeply moving book but it is also a transformative one.  It highlights the limitations and failures of contemporary medicine in the care of the aged and the dying and it provides a wonderfully clear, cogent, deeply human alternative paradigm:  that what counts is to provide a good life to the end rather than a good death.  The shift in thinking is profound and profoundly effects our behavior.

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