Atul Gawande, Being Mortal‘s author, is one of those rare and remarkable beings: Practicing surgeon, writer for the New Yorker, author of seminal books and, because of these accomplishments, a thought leader.
I was advised to read the book by my mother’s doctor. This young doctor met my 92-year old mother recently. Before we parted, she mentioned the title and suggested that it might give me a new perspective on the journey we are engaged in, a journey that she, as well, is on along with almost everyone I know.
It is a deeply moving book but it is also a transformative one. It highlights the limitations and failures of contemporary medicine in the care of the aged and the dying and it provides a wonderfully clear, cogent, deeply human alternative paradigm: that what counts is to provide a good life to the end rather than a good death. The shift in thinking is profound and profoundly effects our behavior.